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You cannot control other people emotions and actions but one thing you can do is to manage how you will react to them.
It is a characteristic of an intelligent mind to be able to think out a situation calmly. Humans react quickly but it doesn't mean you always have to. You can always sit and take your time processing what information was given and what to do with it.
This is very useful in our everyday lives. Sometimes, we feel frustrated with people's actions. We should remember that we cannot control people's emotions and the ways they act on it. We might feel hurt and it could lead to a domino of actions on our part that might actually be unnecessary and harmful. On times you feel yourself hurt, sit down. Think. Would you internalize their actions? Would you let it run your life out of your hands?
We can never control other people, but mercifully, we can always control our actions.
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