There is strength in the affirmation that you will be okay no matter what happens.
In life, people come and go. Sometimes,or most times, we cling to them and find it hard to accept that we must part ways one point in time -- probably for other people or for other passions. We are heartbroken. We just cannot accept it, right? We have to fight for them no matter what and they should fight for us, too, right? Isn't that what the songs and movies have prepared us for?
I am sure you already know that this is not always the case. Sometimes, you have to let people go and people have to let us go, too.
The pain from all this comes from not being able to accept that we are disposable and replaceable.
Subconsciously, we show our best selves to those people in the hopes that they will like us, love us, and stay with us. The truth is far from that. It seems to be a glitch in the system that we cannot accept. People enjoy people, but when the time comes, they must leave especially if there is a reason. Sometimes, there aren't any even.
Strength lies in the acceptance that YOU ARE DISPOSABLE AND REPLACEABLE and there is even more strength in the knowledge that even though you may have been disposed and replaced, you are still you. They never took your personality, your happy attitude, your education, the things you have learned, your hobbies, your friends. They, in fact, did not replace you -- they just replaced themselves.
There is heartbreak, loads of it 'cause they did take someone you love, and your possible future with them. You will miss them and the course of moving on will be a hell of a ride. But take happiness from knowing that you still have a place to restart, and that is YOU.
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