You are not always the victim.
Sometimes, you are the abuser. Sometimes, you are the one who does the mistreatment.
It is easy to see ourselves as the hero or the protagonist of everything. We are at least, in our own eyes. But here's the truth, you are sometimes the villain.
This is not to invalidate your feelings. This is to make you more aware of the situation you put yourself into. We are so predisposed into making ourselves look perfect that we forget we are not and that we are also vulnerable to causing pain to others.
It won't make you less of a person to change. If wouldn't make you less of a person to identify your flaws. If anything, seeing what you lack and your wrongs can help you fill the gaps with the right things.
Check your reasoning. Check your actions. Check yourself.
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